Get the facts about a widely misunderstood part of the female anatomy.
Ah, yes. The hymen. That tiny little membrane that supposedly covers our lady parts. Let’s clear a few things up, shall we?
You might have grown up believing that whole urban legend about the hymen “ripping” or “breaking” during sex, and as a result, you expected some major pain involved in your first time. Turns out that just isn’t the case, folks.
There’s actually a lot we never knew about the hymen. Psychology Today was kind enough to let us in on a few little-known facts, so take a gander for some eye-opening knowledge about a very misunderstood membrane.
1. No One Really Knows Why Female Babies Are Born With Hymens
All we know is that they are. At birth, the doughnut-shaped membrane is prominent and thick, but that changes pretty rapidly.
2. Hymenal Tissue Is Usually Worn Away By Adolescence
During the early years, the membrane thins and widens as a result of athletics, self-exploration, cleansing and even activities as simple as walking. A little of the tissue may remain around the opening of the vagina, but that’s usually it. Which means…
3. Pain Experienced By Many Women During Their First Time Isn’t Because The Hymen Is Breaking
That urban legend you’ve most likely heard about? It was actually a big ol’ myth. Most of the membrane is already worn away when a woman finally has intercourse, and plays little to no role in discomfort. Many girls believe their initial sexual experience is inevitably unpleasant because that is what they’ve been told, so it is. It makes sense when you think about it. When we think something will hurt, we feel anxious and tense which ultimately gives way to pain.
4. Those “Bloody Sheets” Aren’t Because The Hymen Is Tearing, Either
Most young partners are not experienced love-makers. Those first times are usually less skilled and sensual, and more trial and error. Hurried, a poorly lubricated vagina or rough sex can cause sensitive vaginal tissue to bleed, but not hymenal tissue to break.
5. Intact Hymenal Membrane Doesn’t Cover The Whole Vaginal Opening
If it did, girls who still had bits of the hymen left at puberty would not menstruate.
6. About 1 In 200 Women Have An Imperforate Hymen
That means around 0.5% of hymens don’t wear away normally and have openings too small for tampons or erections to comfortably enter the vagina. These days, those cases require a fairly simple surgery to snip away some of the membrane. Hooray for modern medicine, right?
7. Historically, People Have Gone To Great Lengths To Prove That The Hymen Broke After Marriage
In some cultures, families expected newlyweds to hand over bloody sheets after the wedding night to confirm that the hymen had ripped, make sure the woman was a virgin and check that the two had consummated the union. Many brides didn’t even risk it, they would simply cut the inside of their thighs with a sharp fingernail to soil the sheets—just in case and deceive people.
however, based on personal belief, i think it is still a good thing that ladies keep their thighs closed until their wedding night. say no to sex before marriage. #teamAbstinence#
