Dear Tee,
I was one in a relationship with this girl and I love her so much. Then we lost contact two years ago. This year, we met again and continued from where we stopped. After a while, she told me that she has another guy in her life and that they started dating after we lost contact. What should I do? I am really confused here. I think she is playing me but still I love her. I want to change her and eventually get married to her. But what of this guy that is still in the picture?
What do I do?
James.
Dear James,
I understand that you love this girl, but I think you should let her go. She is with another guy, you don’t want to be a second best to her… Also, you cannot change anyone, change comes from within. And I believe that whatever would be would surely be, don’t push things…. . But for now, I think you should allow her to be with the guy she is dating. You might even find another girl, who you would love better and you would not need to share with anyone.
Tee.
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