So you like a girl? You want her to like you back? You need to avoid the crucial mistakes most men make while approaching a girl you’re interested in. So understand this first… girls do not like being friends with other girls. There is a lot of trust issues and general drama being friends with other girls and naturally girls like to avoid this and be friends with guys that seem “down-to-earth” with them. Basically, you don’t need to go into this building a friendship first!
– Make her go after you! You need to put yourself in as many situations and in as many opportunities as you can where she can say something to you. As soon as you’re the first person to initiate things, girls naturally defend “bad” guys by associating you as “pursuing” her. If she thinks AT ALL that you’re pursuing her, you’ll end up as a friend because she’ll see how nice and real you are by your actions you would take trying to show her the real “you.”
– When she makes the first move, whether it takes days or even a few weeks, you need to blow her off. Not full-scale ignore, but you can’t give her those interested eyes we talk about in ‘The 3 Looks Women Give you When they Like you’. Merely acknowledge her comment or her hello and seem as boringly interested in her as possible. It’s going to be hard, I understand, but if you go the other way around, you’re dead meat.
– At this point in time she’s embarrassed in her attempt to reach out to you and she doesn’t understand why, but she now feels inferior to you as you just made it obvious you do not want her friendship. So now we approach her! Give it a few days then reach out to her about something random. Not relationship or first date oriented at all. Just establish some form of connection with her. As she still knows you’re the dominant being in the connection, you’re now in a perfect place to do what you’ve always wanted to do.
– Establish the friendship. You see this point is where you would normally have started off in the beginning and failed. Now that you’ve got her mentality right where you want it as far as not thinking friendship is in question for you, you’ve only left one other option. The option you’ve always wanted!
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