Dear tee,
I have been dating this guy for this 6 years now. He is a muslim and he assisted me financially, he paid my school fees and all that. Recently, he told me about marriage and I responded that I can’t marry him because he is a muslim. Because of this, he stopped giving me money, but there is this other guy that loves me so much and I do love him too. But he is not financially stable. My parents do not give a damn about how I run my educational program. I am confused, please advise.
MY,
Dear MY,
I think you should not have dated this guy in the first place, knowing you can’t marry him because of his religion…. You don’t expect him to continue paying your school fees after you made your intentions known to him, he is only human, my dear. And now that you know you can’t marry him, please let him go. Don’t stick with him because of the monetary assistance he is giving you. Anyway, I think you should take your time before you go into another relationship with this new guy, get to know and understand him first, if you are satisfied with his person and his religion….then you can proceed to dating him. The fact that he isn’t well-to-do now doesn’t mean he would be forever poor. And you should also learn to use your hands to do things that can fetch you money. You can start a little business that would fetch you daily income, with this you would be independent of men and your parents. Listen, a hardworking lady is more appreciated than a dependent one. So, brace up yourself and be ready to be a diligent lady.
All the best,
Tee.
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So u xpect him to keep paying. U can’t marry him but he can spend his money on u. One good turn, deserves anoda.
Im sure, you never feel anything for this guy from the onset.Bringing religion in to this issue is a farce.All you care about is for the man you never love to continue to pay your svhool fees and continue to shoulder other financial responsiibilities of yours.Im sure, your acclaimed love would have benefitted immensely fron this guy largesse.You have not demonstrated attributes of a good christian.You are greedy,cruel & wicked.Gow will judge you.
When U knw u can’t marry him y did U waste his time,strength n effort remember U as a woman will have ur own son someday n wat goes around comes around I think U should put one of ur brothers in his shoes next time dnt start wat U knw U cannot finish
I pray god 4gives u cos I know u might av given dis guy hope of marryin him 4 him 2 av spent lot on you.remember wat u sow u reap!
B4 Dis very day u knw ur luv 4 him wsnt real, but wht u planed did nt see di break of dawn. him 2 na wiser.
i beg my dear no one know tomorrow,,,a big fool today will surely be the leader of tomorrow…you can only go along with d person you love…search you mind again i know you love someone…moreover two guys love you …but 1 is okay the other 1 is trying…make a wise decision ….forgone alternative
may God forgive you heart break
Did you give him head, did the mallam fuck you all this while? If yes the game is drawn, and if not, you have won. The mallam Na your MUGU.
….U bi tiv,ole na God go punish people like u…u dey collect d guy money and u no wan marry ham..e better make he leave u make e no give u money again.d guy na dangote or otedula….so na chop clean mouth u wan do ..now u don hook for neck u better find another aliko to f**k so dat u can finish ur education…︻╦̵̵̿╤─ ҉
Since u know u will not marry him why did u go into relationship with him? Did u know the level pain u hv cast him?put ur self in his condition now,had it been u were thinking both of u will end up marring each other and he refuses what will be ur action? Is too bad of u