Is it worth to pursue a relationship that is not fulfilling eonugh? At what point negative point outweigh the positive ones, or vice versa? Help our reader to make a decision!
I’m totally confused about what to do in my relationship.
We met through a mutual friend a year and a half ago. He has three children (all from his ex), and I have a son. My son doesn’t care for him, but I’ve fallen in love… and I can’t figure out why. The thing is, I feel like I’m settling.
He never finished college while I have two degrees. He makes a good living, but it’s manual labor and it’s taking a toll on his health. I love that he accepted me at my worst and still loves me when I’m thriving and succeeding. His manners are subpar, he dresses like a 9-year-old boy, and he never helps in the house unless I nag him.
I don’t know if I want to raise three more children, and again, my son can’t stand him.
I don’t know if I’m with him because the sex is amazing and because he loves me, or if I just don’t want to be alone. I am fond of him; I’m just not sure if it’s enough to overlook his flaws. Help.
Well from your story the negatives seem to outweigh the positive which is why u should consider letting him go for the sake of your future.
Do u really think u lov him.
Is this a love or lost
Does he reallly lov u as well deep inside both of U……. Search deeply
My own piece of advice is education level doesn’t really mean much d most important thing to me is…do u lov each other deeply,do u care 4 ur self is God really in support of this relationship, du u thnk u can surrender urself to him totally even wen u’r older than him even not just in education inevrytn.Is there any mutual urdastandn betwn both of u
Y not try 2 seat ur son down nd know y his spirit is nt allighn wd th mans
Sit him down about issues on house core nd fix thns up
Is not gud of a wuman widout a man
LET UR WILL PREVAIL